How to please the boy you like?

Yes, gone are the days when, in order to please a girl, boys would pull their pigtails. Now girls themselves want to attract attention to themselves, and they do it in very strange ways. Very often you can see teenage girls sipping beer just like boys, smoking and swearing so hard that the adults fall silent. Of course, such ladies pay attention to themselves, boys consider them “their boys,” but they don’t feel anything serious about such girls. But there are many ways to please a classmate who will have a very serious relationship as a continuation.

How to please a boy who has a crush on you

At such a young age, it is not easy to understand what exactly attracts the opposite sex and what to do so as not to spoil the impression of yourself. However, if you take into account a few recommendations, then you will probably be able to achieve the desired result!

I want to please a boy at 10-11-12 years old

At 10-11 years old

At this age, girls and boys are just entering adolescence.
It is noteworthy that during these years girls are already quite ready to start relationships with the opposite sex, while young schoolchildren, for the most part, do not yet think about it. Ten- and eleven-year-old boys prefer to go out with friends, enjoy games, and so on, so you will have to make some effort to attract their interest. If you yourself are 10-11 years old, and you hope to gain the attention of a peer, then one of the possible options is to help him with his homework. On this basis, you will be forced to communicate, and, most likely, you will be able to interest the boy, while simultaneously talking about your hobbies. It is advisable that your interests are similar to his. At the age of 12,
boys begin to pay more and more attention to girls their own age, however, even at this age, it is often girls who have to take the initiative more often. At the same time, it is advisable to take your time and not demonstrate excessive activity, because while girls have already studied many topics about relationships, boys are still shy and do not know how to build them correctly. Since at this age a boy is already interested in friendship with a girl, but does not yet dare to say so, you can try to establish contact through correspondence on the Internet - for sure, it will be easier for him to open up not in a personal conversation, but through virtual communication.

What to do to please a boy at 13-14-15 years old

At 13 years old

As she grows up, the girl realizes that ordinary glances and friendship are no longer enough for her - she wants real romance.
Meanwhile, many boys of this age are far from these lyrics, and are already beginning to look at their peers differently - they are increasingly interested in the female body. At this age, relationships need to be built more carefully, be open, but not allow the young man too much - holding hands is enough for now. If you are truly dear to him, this will be enough for him for some period. At 14 years old
At this age, girls are already beginning to realize their sexuality and understand what exactly the opposite sex likes.
They often wear short dresses and skirts, blouses with a rather revealing neckline, and so on. Moreover, this behavior can only arouse sexual interest in a guy or provoke a wave of bad rumors, but is unlikely to lead to falling in love. Try not to go this route - dress simply and stylishly, while maintaining some intrigue and mystery, because this attracts the opposite sex at any age. At the age of 15,
Fifteen-year-old boys attach great importance to appearance, so in order for him to like you, you need to take this nuance into account. Emphasize the best features of your figure with interesting but not provocative outfits, and with light makeup highlight your most advantageous facial features.

Answers to other frequently asked questions

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How to please someone on the first date? What to do with fear if you are afraid of not being liked and are nervous?

Basic rules for a perfect date:

Look perfect and impeccable, then you will feel bolder and more confident.
Be punctual. Guys don't like girls who are late; they will appreciate your accuracy.
Do not be silent. Talk to the guy, ask questions, be interested, but don’t chat incessantly, give the guy the opportunity to answer questions and talk about himself.
Be more relaxed and confident.

When you are nervous and worried before a meeting, remember that the guy is also shy and nervous, he is also afraid of not being liked, so calm down, take a deep breath and be natural.

What to do if you consider yourself ugly or fat and this bothers you when meeting people?

Beauty is a subjective concept. Some people like redheads with freckles, others are crazy about brown-eyed brown-haired girls, some guys like chubby girls, others - thin and petite ones. Be yourself . watch your clothing style, do regular hair and skin masks, manicures and pedicures, and if the guys don’t call you a beauty, they will certainly say that you are a very stylish pretty girl.

Nowadays it is very fashionable to strive for painful thinness, so accept yourself and love yourself for who you are. In order not to have problems with excess weight, start eating right, don’t exhaust your body with radical diets, start jogging in the morning, yoga, shaping, fitness, and you’ll immediately start to please guys, and maybe even meet a nice guy during your workouts.

Ways to please a man at work

Before you start fighting for your colleague’s heart, think carefully, because relationships and work are not compatible, you should draw a clear boundary between the work environment and love.

But if you are determined and adamant, be attentive and sociable, become the soul of the team, do not be afraid to be proactive and courageous. Find out how a nice colleague spends his non-working time and keep him company, so you can chat and get to know each other in a free environment, not limited by official boundaries.

How do I know if a guy likes me?

You've tried all the methods, but you don't know whether the object of your dreams likes you or not. There are proven ways to help you find out:

Look at his body movements and facial expressions. A guy will give himself away if he regularly smoothes his hair, tugs at his shirt, watch, or trouser strap. Also, the toe of his shoe will always be facing you, no matter where he is sitting.
Look at his behavior. If a guy suddenly becomes silent, withdrawn, constrained, or, on the contrary, boastful and talkative, it’s worth thinking about.
Look at his actions. A guy who likes you will regularly offer you help, provide attention, offer his friendship and a reliable male shoulder, you will also often bump into him on the street, on the bus, in the supermarket and library, the number of your “sudden” meetings will increase several times once.

How to please a guy's mom?

Meeting your parents is an important stage in any relationship; a guy’s mother can get in the way of your happiness if she doesn’t like you.

How can you get reliable support and a friend from your boyfriend’s mother?

Be modest, but not only in behavior, you should dress modestly and not provocatively in front of your mother.
Pay attention to mom. Remember her date of birth, congratulate her on the Eighth of March and the New Year, praise her cat, buy her a souvenir as a keepsake, bake a cake for the holiday.
Be polite, don't be rude, otherwise your relationship will be doomed.
Keep your distance from your boyfriend in front of your mother. No need to hug, kiss, sit in your arms. This will anger his mother.

The female art of pleasing guys comes with age and experience, the main thing is to always be natural, cheerful, open, honest, positive and cheerful.

But if you haven’t won the guy’s heart, don’t get hung up on worries and mope, take it as a necessary experience and move on with your life. He is not your soul mate, and you will definitely meet your loved one.

How to please a boy at 11 years old

By the fifth grade, boys gradually show interest in the opposite sex and begin to notice obvious differences. They are still trying to hide it, they still spend a lot of time playing with guys, but they are already noticing girls. At the age of 11, in order to capture the attention and arouse the sympathy of a guy, you need to do the same as before - be together more often and get involved in common activities. The only difference is that it will take less effort now. Boys at this age already regard help with homework not only as an opportunity to improve their grades, but also as a pleasant way to communicate. Many people ask for help not from excellent students, but from pretty girls - studying becomes an excuse. In the same way, one math genius can simply point out the section of the textbook where the necessary topic is explained, and another girl will himself explain all the changes, some kind of pattern.

In joint games and activities, it is worth starting to be careful - if earlier the attention was perfectly attracted by the fact that a girl could defeat him, but now it is starting to hit hard on self-esteem. Guys become interested in their own prestige in a male environment and among girls. If a girl surpasses him, then he becomes embarrassed in front of other guys who may start teasing and making fun of him, and in addition, the image of a hero in the girl’s eyes is lost. If you play a competitive game together, then try to keep an equal score; you shouldn’t lose on purpose - this will lose all interest, but winning every time becomes irrelevant. Shift the focus from activity to communication.

When starting to feel sympathy for a girl, many try to hide it so carefully that they achieve the opposite feeling. Therefore, before looking for answers on how to please a boy who doesn’t like you, it’s worth observing him carefully, perhaps you are his ideal, you just don’t have enough determination and skill to admit it yet. It is important to become part of his circle of friends, to establish yourself as an excellent friend - this will not only help you be together more often, but will also give you a kind of permission to communicate. Guys in this age range are very dependent on the opinions of their friends, and if they one day look askance and disapprove of some girl, then communicating with her will directly affect his reputation. The more you are a friend to all guys, the better your relationship with your chosen one will be.

And only after you have become part of his group of friends and have excellent relationships with everyone there, can you begin to distinguish him from everyone else. This can be done by asking his opinion, telling a story, looking at him, you can invite him several times to spend time together without everyone else. The attention of a girl who everyone likes is very flattering for guys at this age.

You can get an 11-year-old boy to like you at school if you reduce school communication to a minimum and, if possible, make the most of the opportunities for joint creativity. That is, if a presentation is required from the class, then you need to prepare it together; if you are assigned to prepare a presentation, then ask him to help after class. During the lessons themselves, do your homework and don’t get distracted, even if a cute guy provokes you. It's important to set boundaries, and the lack of communication at school will motivate him to communicate with you after school.

Handsome and not so handsome

Any schoolchild can become the object of your sympathy. We can identify the main types of schoolchildren with whom girls most often fall in love.

An example to follow. Surely there is a guy at your school who is always held up as an example to everyone. He is a good student, handsome, has a neat appearance, plays sports and knows how to speak politely and beautifully with girls. It's hard not to fall in love with such a prince.

There is the opposite type of guy. He is the first to be criticized and scolded; he is considered the main punishment that fell on the school. He is the number one bully and if there is a fight somewhere, he will definitely take part in it. This guy has a tough temperament, can stand up for himself and his friends, and is not afraid to joke and mock teachers. Often his classmates suffer because of him, and perhaps he offends you too. But that doesn't make the bad guys any less interesting.

The third type of guy who wins the hearts of classmates is just a friend. You probably did homework with him more than once, figured out how to escape from classes, covered for each other from parents and teachers. You just communicate and spend a lot of time together, but one day you realize that there is no longer friendship between you, but there is something more.

First steps

Every girl knows that they are greeted by the cover. Therefore, first of all, a young man can be impressed by his appearance. Don't think that to impress means to surprise, amaze or shock. To impress is to make a pleasant impression. In what ways can and cannot be done?

Boys are attracted to femininity. Sometimes it may seem that the guy you like is surrounded by a lot of girls in tracksuits and sneakers, but still ladies in skirts and dresses evoke more romantic feelings. Heavy, rough boots with laces, dark, shapeless sweatshirts and robes will not attract attention, but may repel. Choose flowing light fabrics, interesting models of skirts, dresses and sundresses, blouses with beautiful patterns. But remember that you need to dress according to the occasion. For example, a classic dress would be appropriate for school, but a more playful and bright one for a walk.
Don't overdo it with black. It is clear that this is a classic color, but light clothes create a bright, kind image of a sweet girl in the mind. Choose delicate colors: peach, mint, coral, beige. The bottom (pants or skirt) can remain black.
Don't try to look provocative. It is a deep misconception that tight, too short skirts and open cleavage attract boys. In fact, modesty is always held in high esteem.
Makeup should not resemble war paint, especially for schoolgirls! If a girl already considers herself an adult to start using cosmetics, then the makeup should be appropriate for both her age and the event. At 15-17 years old, slightly tinted eyelashes and transparent lip gloss will be just right.
The most important thing in your appearance is clean, fresh and ironed clothes. Many girls mistakenly believe that brand and fashion are important, but this is not entirely true. Let it be simple clothes, but well-groomed. Don't forget to clean or wash your shoes every day!

Showing interest

Once you meet a guy, it will be much easier to get to know him better. Boys are often liked by girls due to their appearance or level of popularity among their peers. But this is an erroneous criterion for choosing an object of affection. Women of all ages make mistakes in choosing men because they rely on appearance or social status rather than on common interests and personality traits. But in your school years, be especially careful, correctly evaluate a guy by his actions, words and behavior.

Having figured out how to meet a boy at school (through mutual friends, at events, or by taking the initiative yourself), become friendly and welcoming. When communicating, a girl should notice the guy’s character traits and interests. After this, she must understand: she still has sympathy for him or he becomes just a friend. You can interest guys by starting conversations about their hobbies. They will be happy to communicate with a girl who finds a common language with their friends.

Within the school, awkwardness often arises due to the presence of classmates and gossip flying around. To avoid awkward situations, you can find a reason to meet the boy after school or on the weekend. Alternatively, you can take 1 school assignment for 2, attend the same section, events or courses outside of school.

It is very important to monitor not only your appearance, but also to stand out with your hobbies and success in your endeavors. School years are an important stage in the development of each person as an individual. This is the foundation for building your entire life. Making plans while studying, for example, in the 6th grade is not stupid or naive. This speaks of determination and the formation of a strong character. Such qualities in girls attract guys even at school age, because they see an interesting interlocutor and a worthy person.

How to get a guy to like you at school

When trying to attract the attention of a young man, you should take into account his age. Let's look at some options. If he is your classmate

If we are talking about a classmate, then you have a lot of advantages - you see him quite often, you can know about his hobbies, and so on.
Try to get closer to him through studies. If he studies poorly, help him with some subjects. Perhaps his academic performance is higher than yours - in this situation, on the contrary, ask him to explain some topic (choose something easy so that your request does not seriously burden him). Periodically give compliments to your classmate (“How do you manage to grasp everything so quickly,” “Cool backpack, and I want one,” and the like). If he is older than you,
try to catch his eye more often.
It would be nice to enroll in the same sections that he attends and learn more about his interests. This way, he will see that despite the age difference, it is interesting to communicate with you, because you are passionate about the same things as him. If he himself does not attend any sections, but is registered on social networks, you can see there what topics are interesting to him. Start showing an interest in the same things - sign up for the same groups, add similar posts. Of course, it is important that he sees this. If possible, in order to show his importance, ask him for advice on this or that topic - he will probably like it. If he is younger than you
If the guy who interests you is a grade or two younger, then you can attract his attention by helping with his homework. Find yourself a girlfriend in this class and find out what subjects the young man has problems with. Subsequently, you can offer him the services of a tutor in a “problematic” subject, saying that you are just learning this, and it is completely free. You can also just invite him for a walk. It's that simple! Schoolboys usually have a special interest in girls who are a little older, and if he likes you, he will certainly agree. In order not to take him by surprise or confuse him with such an offer, it is better to make it on a social network or via SMS.

Find common interests and hobbies

It is important to learn as much as possible about your chosen one. This will give you an idea of how he lives and what he is passionate about. With the help of such information, you can find a common range of interests that will help you achieve your goals. Intersections can be found in a variety of directions:

This may be a boy's favorite subject, and he may take extracurricular classes. Why don’t you sign up there too - this will provide direct communication and at the same time bring undoubted benefits in the form of additional knowledge.
By being active and showing your best side, for example, by participating in the Olympiad, preparing a school play, discussing educational events, you will always be visible, and perhaps the young man himself will want to get to know you better.
You can join the section and circle that the boy attends - in this case, you have the opportunity to ask him for advice or help in a new matter for you.
And again, the Internet - this alternative way to gain information about a person should not be underestimated. Join the same groups as your classmate, you can even develop some vigorous activity in them to please him. If you are already corresponding, ask various questions about his current hobbies - computer games, favorite music, athletes, leisure activities.

How to get a boy's attention if he likes someone else

First of all, think about whether you really like this boy, or whether you can easily switch your interest to someone else. This will be quite appropriate if the person this young man likes has similar feelings for him. Believe me, a new love will happen in your life soon, which will turn out to be happier! If you do not want to retreat, and you understand that the “competitor” does not care about your chosen one, then, of course, you can join the fight. At this stage, we recommend that you become friends with the young man you like. Start getting interested in the same things that interest the guy, go to the same places with him, if possible, consult with him on this or that issue. However, don't be intrusive! Once contact is established, you can use a little trick. You can tell the guy in a personal conversation or on a social network that you need his advice, since you can’t figure out who else to ask. Complain that you are being courted by a guy who is not interesting to you, and you want to find out what the best words are to choose so that he stops showing himself, but also does not get offended. Thus, you will show the young man that you are of interest to the opposite sex, which will make him look at you from a different angle.

Tips for girls to find a guy and make friends with him

Visit places where guys gather more often - this increases your chance of making an interesting acquaintance. Visit a sports ground with a friend, where young men kick a ball, do exercises on horizontal bars, and so on. Of course, you need to look appropriate for the situation - do not wear high-heeled shoes and do not wear complex makeup. Dress simply and tastefully - sneakers, a sundress, jeans or something like that. Just look at the young man with interest, and he will definitely pay attention to you too. However, these days, you can meet guys not only at school, on sports grounds or in parks - you can make acquaintance with the young man you like on a social network. First, you can start liking his posts, then write something (“Where do you find such cool music?”, “In what area did you take such cool photos,” and the like). Show your interlocutor that you like him, and if it is mutual, you will soon see it yourself. As you understand, in order to make friends with a guy, you need to show him that you are really interested in him - this can be done with a glance, a compliment, or any signs of attention. Any guy will be pleased to know that some girl likes him - thanks to this knowledge, he begins to look at her from a different side, imagine her as a girl, even if he didn’t particularly notice her before. However, do not overdo it - it is enough to show that you are interested in him, but there is no need to impose yourself.

How to please a boy at 10 years old

Perhaps the first thoughts on how to please a boy come at the age of 10. This is the easiest in terms of establishing ordinary friendly communication and the most difficult in forming inter-gender interaction, which is explained by the different speed of mental processes. While girls are already beginning to feel sympathy for boys, go out with them and communicate more, boys do not yet feel such a need. Girls have a different style of communication, they want to spend time with friends less and less, and in those moments when they communicate with girls, they want to discuss the possibility of relationships with guys, find out who likes whom, and share information on improving their image. At this time, boys still behave as before - they spend time with the guys, consider girls boring and do not particularly notice the difference in gender.

Winning the sympathy of a boy is a difficult task, since all his hobbies are outside the sphere of girls. Some people often start communicating with older guys, because they are already interested in girls and they can quickly find a common language with them, but not all of those who are older will agree to communicate with a younger girl. But the situation is not hopeless. Interest at this age needs to be attracted by getting involved in general activities. If you know how to ride a bicycle or roller skate, you can organize a competition; if you know an interesting abandoned house, then you can arrange a tour there.

How to get a boy to like you at 10 years old? You need to show enthusiasm and character, if you look at the boy in fascination and nod to his every word, then he will not be interested. It is best to defeat him in some matter. To overtake, to pass a test better, to climb higher on a tree - this will attract his attention, if only because the boy cannot allow a girl to defeat him. Competitions will help build friendships and strong relationships, especially if after a series of victories you lose to him, and in another area he asks for advice or to teach you. For example, you can overtake him on roller skates, and at the same time ask him to teach him how to skateboard, you can pass literature better and ask him to explain mathematics. You can’t constantly beat him, otherwise the guy’s self-esteem will decrease, and he will find a social circle where he will look better.

There is no need to tell a 10-year-old guy about your feelings, especially in a romantic manner from melodramatic films - it may not be clear to him, which pushes many to make rather cruel jokes. Try to spend more time where he spends it and actively participate in everything that happens. If a crowd of boys is playing in the snow, then it’s better to join in, and play for the enemy team - that way he’ll definitely remember you. The worst thing you can do is walk by with an arrogant and boring face, showing with all your appearance how frivolous snowballs are for a girl. He will simply understand that he shouldn’t invite someone like him with him, but he will always want to see a cheerful and mischievous girl who can have fun just like him. And even if he doesn’t yet realize what exactly is happening and doesn’t know what this feeling is called, but you are already becoming special to him.

How to attract interest by correspondence

If you like a guy you don't know well, you need to know how to make him pay attention to you. There are no age or gender differences in social networks; girls also have the right to write to guys first.

To interest a guy by correspondence, you need to start an entertaining conversation with him. You shouldn’t write a banal “Hello, how are you?” Experiment with phrases; from the first message he should be interested and want to continue the conversation.

If after the first day of communication the young man’s activity has not increased, it means that you are not the object of his interest. In such a situation, you need to wait a little and not bombard him with messages. If the desire to see a guy is higher than your sense of dignity, you can invite him to meet in person.