How to return the old feelings of a beloved man at a distance?

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When people are in love, even a short separation becomes an unbearable test. You can imagine how a woman feels after breaking up with her beloved man. Emptiness, the search for the reason that led to the breakup, many questions in her head, the answers to which do not bring her relief. The main problem is how to continue to live and how to get a man back after breaking up. The advice of a psychologist in this situation will help you make a decision and develop an action plan to return your loved one, especially since this kind of algorithms have existed for a long time and are successfully used by women who are left alone.

How does a love spell work at a distance?

If you are thinking about casting a love spell at a distance, then you better know how this magical love method works. Under the influence of a love spell, the interest of your beloved guy narrows to thoughts, and, accordingly, to feelings about you. At the same time, the information field of your couple changes. You become as if closed to each other. To bewitch a man, it is important that your interest also remains focused on his image all the time. Yes, that means you can't think about anyone else either. Only in this case will you get a magical love closed system. In order for a love spell based on a photo at a distance or on a man’s personal belongings to work as effectively as possible, you need to put into the process the feelings that you really feel for him. Please note that whatever feelings you put into the ritual will then prevail in your relationship. Therefore, if you have grievances associated with this man, then it is advisable to work through them separately and only then do the love magic love spell itself.

Objective assessment of the situation

Top tip: Assess the situation like an adult

– objectively, without emotions. Were there any feelings on his part? Remember: how did you live, how much time did you spend together?

Maybe communication with you was necessary for certain purposes? Yes, it’s hard to admit that a person took advantage of you, but in order to prevent repeated mistakes, do not discard this option. Now is the best time to analyze events.

Friends and relatives can help; they often see better from the outside. Of course, in such situations you have to make decisions yourself, you never know what they can advise. But if you lack a real assessment of what is happening, choose as a consultant the most adequate, non-envious and reliable acquaintance who will not benefit.

If the guy left for someone else, think even more. No matter how strong your feelings are, have pride and know how to be happy for those you love.

Preparing for a love spell at a distance

Before the ceremony begins, you must carry out some preparation. Remember that alcohol weakens control and can direct energy in the wrong direction, so for several days before the love spell, do not drink a drop of alcohol and avoid parties. For several days, do not show strong emotions and do not quarrel with anyone. You need to save energy for magical effects. The love spell must be carried out in a clean room, in a clean body and in clean clothes. Remove all unnecessary things, garbage, and rubbish from the room where you will perform the ritual. Energy should not encounter additional obstacles on its way. It is better to keep the window or window open during magical actions. Usually rituals are performed barefoot, with loose hair, wearing clothes without belts, bags, or fasteners. Energy should flow freely through your body. Also remove all jewelry and remove makeup.

Reasons for separation: analysis

Before you decisively plunge into the struggle to get your man back, you should analyze the possible reasons for the breakup.

Among them, psychologists note:

1. Mismatch of characters and interests. Often the reason for separation is different life interests, priorities, and goals. It is quite difficult to establish a harmonious relationship with a person who looks in a completely different direction, thinks differently, wants something different. The divergence of interests causes new problems and difficulties with each month of life, and also prevents both partners from achieving their goals.
2. Loss of trust. Trust is one of the key factors to a happy and lasting relationship. Its loss leads to the disappearance of a sense of security, a reliable “rear,” and to the appearance of bilateral reproaches, suspicion, and resentment. As a result, such painful relationships create emptiness in the soul and a desire to change something, for example, to break up.
3. Psychological and emotional abuse. Manipulation, control, groundless jealousy, verbal humiliation, demonstration of power and physical strength - all these are signs of violence, in which one of the partners is almost always in a depressed, depressed state. At the same time, not only representatives of the stronger sex, but also women are capable of displaying psycho-emotional violence.

   

4. Frustrated hopes. A person’s real behavior and life principles often do not coincide with the ideal picture that was drawn by the other partner. Such disappointed expectations give rise to anger, anger, and irritability, although they are not based on reality, but on human illusions. The desire to mold the other half into an ideal according to one’s dreams ultimately leads to separation by mutual consent: one is not satisfied with the real “earthly” partner, the second is the need to live up to the fictional character.
5. Habit, boredom, loss of spark. Everyday problems, different interests, lack of common goals cause people to move away from each other, boredom and habit appear in relationships. Some couples live for years without experiencing the same feelings, holding on to virtual straws: children, work, housing, etc. However, most couples in this case, if they wish, can be “saved” if the problem is noticed in time.
6. Financial difficulties. One of the most common reasons for separation is considered to be financial difficulties, which mean not only a shortage of funds, but also their proper distribution. One of the couple spends thoughtlessly or, conversely, saves too much, which causes resentment, disappointment, doubts in the other, and instills a feeling of humiliation and uncertainty.
7. Physical and emotional rupture. A direct path to separation is considered to be a severance of physical and emotional connections, in which sexual intimacy and communication with each other disappear. As a result of such a gap, uncertainty, disappointment, and dissatisfaction arise, which prompts one to find a solution to the problem from the outside - from friends, new acquaintances. This is how betrayals and new loves happen.

   

8. Sexual incompatibility. Sexual relationships are considered one of the main pillars on which family life is built, so if they are absent or of poor quality, one cannot count on a long-lasting union. Men are more active in solving this problem and most often find a way out in outside relationships.

Important! Despite the fact that each family is an individual, unique “organism” with its own problems and difficulties, the reasons for discord in relationships are almost the same for everyone. But not everyone has the wisdom and experience to recognize them behind daily quarrels and scandals.

Possible consequences of a love spell

The impact on human energy does not go unnoticed. Therefore, the following events can be side effects of a love spell on love and passion:

• Attacks of jealousy. The bewitched person will begin to suspect you of cheating, create scandals, even go as far as assault, and in the end may generally prohibit you from leaving the house without his accompaniment.
• Outbursts of aggression. Disturbed energy flows negatively affect the psyche. A person ceases to control his emotions and behavior.
• Alcoholism and other addictions. They can arise in cases where you have nevertheless attracted a partner to you, but there is still no peace in your couple. Another common case is when someone else’s man was bewitched, he was taken away from the family, he begins to rush between passion for you and duty towards his ex-wife and children, and eventually drives himself into depression and washes it down with “bitter”.

Black magic love spell can cause diseases, sometimes the most severe ones. In addition, loss of appetite, sudden weight loss, and loss of interest in a once favorite activity are possible. The risk of accidents increases sharply, as like attracts like - the dark energy of the ritual attracts all sorts of troubles. Often men develop impotence. In especially severe cases, even thoughts of suicide may appear. The impact of magic can also negatively affect the children of the person being bewitched - their luck and even their health. The “witch” herself can experience the same thing if she does not have the appropriate strong protection, or when there is a shield on the object of the love spell and all the energy of the ritual turns against the sorceress. For women, a love spell performed at a distance can result in infertility. That is why, if you are far from magic, and we are talking about the lives of loved ones, it is best to turn to an experienced magician. An experienced magician will not only successfully perform a lapel, but will also be able to protect your loved one from the magical influence of ill-wishers, and you from possible karmic attachments, damage, or the influence of foreign entities on you. Only by working with a true professional can you be absolutely sure of quickly achieving the required result, without fearing for the fate of your couple.

How to get your relationship back with your loved one?

Are you still determined? Then you need to act in accordance with the circumstances - taking into account the reasons for the separation.

But in any case, psychologists recommend:

1. Don't attack him, you'll lose the chance rather than gain it;
2. Live an ordinary life, take a closer look, because it is not immediately clear what exactly
   needs to be done. Just try not to lose contact, keep the guy in sight, but unobtrusively.

Now a confidential conversation is needed; the fate of the relationship depends on its nature. If:

• The ex-partner maintains communication, airs out complaints, talks about desires - he is not against reuniting, otherwise he would not have done it. Listen and take note;
• He does not make contact - think about the appropriateness of your actions.

In any case, maintain dignity and respect. Nothing bad happened, perhaps later you will smile, remembering these days.

Psychologist's advice

An attempt to return a loved one may not always end successfully, especially in cases where the relationship lasted a short time. But you should not fall into despair, since the end of an old relationship invariably entails the beginning of a new one. And now the main task of a woman is not to make similar mistakes.

Error Analysis

Breaking up with a man is not a reason for depression, but provides an opportunity to analyze possible mistakes in a relationship. By analyzing a woman’s behavioral factors, one can be convinced that very often she cannot reason objectively and is guided solely by emotions. When the emotions subside, you should, abstracting from the situation, clearly identify your mistakes and record them on a piece of paper. Perhaps in past relationships the girl was too intrusive or, conversely, indifferent, inattentive, sexually cold, jealous, etc.

As a rule, both partners are to blame for the breakdown of a relationship, and there is no need to place all the blame on yourself. In this case, it is necessary to realize the mistakes, analyze them, accept them and try to make sure that they are not repeated in a new relationship.

Focus on yourself

One of the biggest advantages of breaking up a relationship is the opportunity to really take care of yourself: change your image, hairstyle, makeup, play sports, sign up for various trainings and courses, find a new hobby. It should be understood that a woman who has been abandoned by a man cannot afford to be depressed for a long time. Experts recommend setting aside a certain period of time for suffering, for example, a week or a month. Next, you need to return to life, be reborn: fill the day with positive emotions, make new acquaintances, take care of yourself. If a former lover wants to return, then only to a confident, thriving and happy woman.

White magic

How to get your beloved man back after a breakup? White magic is one of the steps of desperate girls. After all, in order to restore the feelings of their loved one and renew the relationship, they are ready to do a lot.

Remember that by performing magical rituals, you are trying to impose your love on your ex-boyfriend. Such methods are always risky, since harm can be done to both your lover and yourself.

Rituals can be complex or simple. For some of them, it is not necessary to look for a professional magician, while for others, they cannot do without the help of a specialist.

At first glance, there is nothing complicated. You just need to strictly follow each point of the ritual, and then just wait for your loved one to return to your home.

Girls' mistakes ↑

A huge number of girls who are trying to get a guy back after a long breakup or immediately after he left make similar mistakes. You shouldn’t prove your love too fiercely and try to please him, this can only push your partner away.

Of course, sometimes it is very difficult not to dial a number or not to “reset” an SMS, but believe me, this will only aggravate an already difficult situation.

So, first, remember the main rules and common mistakes:

1. There is no need to humiliate yourself and blackmail . Never ask or beg a guy, phrases like: “come back, I will forgive everything”, “I will kneel before you”, “I will commit suicide”, etc. will only show you from the side of a woman who has completely lost her own dignity. This will only make a guy want to run as far away from you as possible. Remember that only pride and self-esteem can maintain your partner’s respect for you.
2. Bed for an ex is a taboo ! Some girls make a mistake after a breakup: they agree to have intimate relationships after a breakup, naively assuming that by embodying the fantasies of their loved one, they will be able to get him back. Unfortunately, this path is obviously a failure, since the ex-boyfriend comes to you for sexual release and that’s all.
3. You should not shower the guy with gifts and flowers, this will not help improve the relationship, but will only worsen it. Such attentions will most likely tell your ex-boyfriend about your insecurity and despair.
4. There is no need to watch him at the exit from work , at home, or “by chance” meet him several times a day, as he will simply want to “dissolve” so that you let him out of your sight. Also forget about SMS and other messages on social networks.
5. Get out of depression as soon as possible. Naturally, this is easier said than done, but the longer depression persists with you, the more pathetic the girl looks in the eyes of the guy. Try to get rid of or put away those items that remind you of your life together.