How to cheer yourself up and stop being driven: 6 smart ways

One of the main tools of a competent pick-up artist is the ability to cheer up a girl. I usually don’t even ask myself the question of how to cheer up a girl - everything somehow works out by itself. But here, vast experience in communication and the ability to feel the mood of a representative of the fairer sex are of great importance. If you don’t have such experience yet, then I’ll give you some practical advice on how to cheer up your friend. By the way, the ability to cheer up a girl can be useful not only for dating, but also in relationships

. The thing is that women are emotional creatures, and therefore a man may not notice anything, and then unexpectedly find himself in the very center of an emotional storm. And here you can’t do without understanding female psychology. Very often there are situations when, instead of racking your brains over how to make a girl laugh, you just need to leave her alone or not bother with stupid jokes, but support her. I will also tell you about this in my article.

Correspondence

Examples of dialogues will help guys know what to write to their partner to lift her spirits.

• Max: Good morning!
• Ira: Hello!
• Max: I have news for you.
• Ira: Intrigued. What news?
• Max: A wizard came to visit at night.
• Ira: Yes, well...
• Max: We're friends. I asked you to tell the most beautiful girl in the world that she will have a great day today. I immediately realized that it was about you.
• Ira: Thank you. Nice.

Here's another example of funny correspondence.

• Sergey: Hello, sun!
• Katya: Hello!
• Sergey: I remember our last meeting, when I came to visit.
• Katya: Wow! Why do you remember?
• Sergey: My cat fell in love with you, he said that if I offend you, he will take revenge. And if something happens, he will go to live with you!
• Katya: What an insidious...
• Sergey: The cat and I are waiting for you for a romantic dinner in the evening. You tell him everything you think.
• Katya: Agreed.
• Sergey: And I want you to have a great day today, everything you planned will work out.
• Katya: Thank you. Mutually.

Examples will help direct the dialogue in the right direction and lift the lady’s mood. But it is worth taking into account the character traits of the woman you love and successfully playing with them in correspondence.

How to entertain a girl on a date?

No matter what they write or say about the possibility of entertaining a young lady at a distance, for example, using SMS or social networks, only live communication, for example, on a date, can truly lift a friend’s mood.
Therefore, if she suddenly feels sad in a cafe or on a walk, then be sure to hug her so that she feels your male support and warmth. Or you can just take her by the hand or even sit her on your lap.

A great way to cheer up your girlfriend is to first treat her with chocolate

. Yes, they all watch their figure and their face, but it’s still a rare person who can refuse chocolate. Especially if you treated her yourself. Scientists have proven that this product contains a substance due to which hormones of happiness are produced in our brain. Women simply adore him. And after the ground has been prepared in this way, you can think about how to make a girl laugh.

Compliment the girl, and don't forget to be at least a little romantic. They say that giving flowers is no longer in fashion. But no matter how trendy she may seem to herself and you, a girl definitely won’t refuse a cute bouquet. By the way, the words about fashion, I think, are fundamentally wrong. Look around - there are flower shops in every block, and in some places at every stop. Such gifts continue to be in demand among the fair sex, at least in our country.

If you don’t know how to cheer up a girl, just come up with some funny prank, examples of which can be easily found on the Internet. Well, the most bulletproof option is to invite her to an initially fun place, for example, to the cinema for a new comedy, to the circus, or a place where you need to be active, for example, to a water park or an quest room. And her good mood will definitely return, since physical activity increases the level of adrenaline in the blood, and it excites. And for an emotional person, excitement is what is needed to raise tone and mood. If you want to learn even more secrets on seducing girls, subscribe to my VKontakte page.

When should you not joke?

But first, I’ll tell you about situations when you definitely shouldn’t joke. As I already said, girls are emotional beings, and therefore artificially getting a friend out of a bad mood may turn out to be more expensive
. How to entertain a girl if she is negative? Often it's just a waste of time. We need to clarify the situation by talking calmly. If she refuses to communicate, then the joint is most likely yours. And you can't get away with jokes anymore. If she makes contact, then something else is to blame for her bad mood.

The best thing in this situation is to leave her alone with her thoughts. And after a while the woman calms down. However, if a girl is very upset, and the main sign of this is tears, then you need to support the person, find out the cause of the upset and try to help, if of course it is in your power. But if the incident of her sadness is really not very significant, then a good joke or a funny prank is just the thing to correct the situation. So you shouldn’t be shy about humor.

Every girl and woman experiences hormonal changes once a month; naturally, this significantly affects her mood. In this case, it is highly inadvisable to joke about this topic. You're unlikely to be able to make a girl laugh like that. The solution is to leave her alone, or cheer her up, for example, hug her and say a few kind words, or give her something. Men's humor can be quite unique, but women's humor is something special. Meanwhile, some men's jokes are generally incomprehensible or unpleasant to ladies. Next, a few words about how not to joke if you want to make your friend laugh and not offend.

• Many have already read my articles about the neghit technique, but such tactics are only needed for acquaintance. If you are already dating, then you definitely shouldn’t laugh at your friend or her problems, shortcomings and complexes. She may ignore your jokes and even smile, but the resentment will remain in her heart and then come back to bite you. Remember - when they talk about a reasonable amount of self-irony, this applies in most cases to men. It's rare to meet a girl who is honestly ready to laugh at her shortcomings and mistakes. The weaker sex is weak and therefore too. We are willing to admit our failure and laugh at it because we are confident that we can do better and will do better. A woman takes failure much closer. Whatever it is - an ugly nose, protruding ears, inability to dress, or problems at work.
• You should not mention your exes in conversation - hers or yours - and mock them. This is not the best option for making your friend laugh, simply because this topic is unnecessary.
• If you are just moving to the stage of romance, then you should express yourself correctly and not use black humor and jokes below the belt. Of course, there is a difference between girl and girl, and there are still some outliers. But even breakups in such cases want romance, and not constant swearing from the new guy.

• In any case, it is considered bad form to laugh at tragic events, sick people and people with disabilities
  . Such jokes can be more alarming and repulsive than amuse the girl.
• It's not a good idea to use alcohol to lift her mood, unless of course she wants it. An equally important point is the question of what to drink with a girl. Alcohol is doubly harmful for women, and therefore you should think about it if your friend is used to drowning her sorrows with alcohol. There's definitely no time for jokes here.

If the guy is far away

A young man can please his beloved even while away from her. Of course, this is a little more difficult to do, because we are talking about improving the condition using the Internet or a cell phone.

1. Write SMS messages to your beloved. Short, kind and friendly SMS will please any woman. For example: “I wish you have a great day!”, “Charge your day with your smile!”, “I’m eager to see you. In the meantime, please the world with your radiance.”
2. How to cheer up a girl by correspondence? You can send a beautiful poem or a love declaration in prose. And if it is written independently, the fair sex will certainly like it.
3. Write a real letter by hand. There is an opinion that this is unfashionable. But writing letters is romantic. If a lady loves tenderness, she will certainly be delighted with this letter.
4. Call her on the phone and confess your love. If you still have friendly relations, then ask your interlocutor about her affairs, ask what you can do for her.

In the Internet

Many guys don’t know how to cheer up a girl via correspondence in contact. This is not as difficult to do as it seems.

1. If the young man knows that the lady is not busy, he can describe a funny story that happened to him. For example: a funny incident from childhood or a situation that happened recently.
2. You can also send someone else's funny story, but it should not be vulgar or rude.
3. If desired, the guy can remember how they went somewhere together or went on a date. Add that he misses such moments, they make the young man happy. Joint photographs are attached to the correspondence.
4. Girls love to plan pleasant events. Let the guy develop the topic of a future trip to a city he likes or offer to plan an original date.
5. Representatives of the fair sex often love funny videos with cats or children. Send them intriguing and short videos. Don't forget to write a few kind words or comments to them.

It is worth remembering that a video for your beloved should not contain obscenities or vulgarities. A video that a friend might like may shock a woman and cause disgust.

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How to cheer yourself up?

In order to cheer up, it is not necessary to seek the company of other people.
How to cheer yourself up at home? If a person is sad and doesn’t want to do anything, then he needs to be idle. This is sometimes a very useful activity. You can pour yourself a cup of tea, crawl under the blanket and turn on a comedy series or movie. The problems of fictional characters will help you forget about your failures. If you don’t want to sit at home, you can call your friends and go to a cafe, cinema, theater or nightclub. The choice of location will depend on the person’s personal preferences. If he is sociable, then it is better to go to a crowded place, but if not, then the choice should fall on the theater or cinema.

Today there is a lot of entertainment that is aimed at interesting and non-trivial leisure time. This could be a quest, or an intellectual Olympiad, or you can go and play virtual reality games. Sometimes look through the posters of events taking place in your city, you can find a lot of interesting things there.

General Tips

1. Listen carefully to the problems. Sometimes it is important for ladies to find an interlocutor who will calmly listen to them and will not criticize or make comments. If you can, please help with practical advice.
2. Don't get into conflict. If a representative of the fair sex is not in the mood, then she can shout and start a quarrel. It is important here not to give in to provocations. Conflict will only make the situation worse. We will have to not only improve her mood, but also put up with it.
3. Don't talk about your difficulties. At this moment, the woman has no time for this. When she is in a bad mood, she is not able to soberly assess the situation, will not help with your problem, and her condition will only worsen.
4. Let him be alone. If she wants to be left alone, then give her that opportunity. Probably, the fair sex wants to think things through or wants to cry a little into the pillow.

In the morning hours

How to cheer up a girl in the morning? This is a feasible task that anyone can handle. If the woman you love is in a great mood, then the day will go well, and in the evening she will give the guy a romantic date, charging him with positivity until the next meeting.

1. An easy way is to send an SMS message with a compliment. Wish you a good day and pleasant work or study.
2. Write your wishes on social networks. Rarely does a morning go by without checking messengers. The lady will be glad to see a message online with pleasant wishes.
3. Give a gift. It is not necessary to give a real present. Give a gift in contact. For example: a virtual flower or a huge bouquet.
4. Make coffee or cook breakfast. This method is suitable if you live alone with your beloved. Prepare an omelet, scrambled eggs or fry pancakes. The fair sex will enjoy the attention.
5. Don't skimp on compliments. Tell the woman you love that she looks luxurious even early in the morning without makeup, because true beauty cannot be overshadowed by anything.