Couples who live together for a long time gradually lose sexual interest in each other. This is a pattern that is inevitable. This is the human essence - everything new is interesting, but what has been studied for a long time is not attractive. The fire of passion can be rekindled with the help of magical rituals. To make a husband want his wife every day, a strong conspiracy can help. However, there is one important condition. Nobody should know about them.
There are a number of conspiracies to make a husband want his wife
How to become desirable to your husband again
It often happens that a woman really wanted to meet “that” man. A dream came true - meeting, meeting, getting engaged, getting married. Years pass, and as always, the passion subsides. If the spouses are wealthy, they can even sleep in different rooms. How to get your always busy husband into bed? Carry out a “village” ritual so that the husband wants his wife every day. The conspiracy is strong, but does not require special esoteric knowledge or witchcraft skills. Such simple but effective magic is the fastest way to get closer to bed.
For rituals they often use:
- personal belongings;
- Epiphany water;
- food;
- wine;
- church candles;
- photographs, etc.
As you can see, all this is quite easy to get, so performing the ceremony yourself will not be difficult. Be sure to turn to magical rituals if you have been married for a long time.
Family magic includes rituals aimed at bringing children into the family. For example, young people have been living in civil marriages for a long time. Years pass, and the question of children is still postponed until later. In this case, you can resort to magic and make the guy want to have a child.
How to excite your wife at home
Please note that after marriage, men often stop giving their lover the compliments they showered her with before.
This behavior can lead to a cooling of passion, because women love to be praised. Any kind and gentle word can excite a girl even more than the most intimate touch. Surely, after a hard day at work or doing household chores, your wife is very tired. Treat her with a relaxing erotic massage. Let her be seduced not only by your touches on her body, but also by the care and attention shown.
Another way to show care is to prepare a bath. Fill the bath with warm water, add foam, essential oils and a little sea salt. You can place scented candles around the perimeter of the room and add rose petals to the water. Most likely, somewhere in the most hidden corners of her fantasy, your beloved dreamed of such a romantic event. Offer your significant other some chilled champagne and she will ask you to join her.
In addition, if you want to have a sexual continuation of the evening at home, you can take care of its romantic beginning in another place, for example, in a restaurant. Makeup, manicure, dress and neat hairstyle will make your wife feel special. She will surely appreciate your efforts, and after such an amazing dinner, she will reward you with a night of passionate and tender love.
Village conspiracies for sex
Every woman dreams of marriage. Suppose she met the man whom she really wanted in order to build a happy family with him. Over time, her feelings dulled, a lot of worries appeared, and her husband stopped paying attention to her. Stormy nights have become a rare occurrence, passion no longer excites his blood, and pleasures in bed are no longer regular.
What to do? To return the passion of your spouse, white magic will help.
How to easily return your husband's former passion with the help of meat
To bring back your husband’s former passion, you need to buy meat, apply raw meat to your chest and read the spell, then cook your husband’s favorite dish
If a wife always passionately desires her soul mate, waits for him from work, buys beautiful lingerie, but he hardly notices her, you need to perform a simple ritual.
On Friday, during the full moon, go to the market. Buy good meat without haggling over price . You need to go home immediately after purchasing.
Prepare your spouse's favorite meat dish. Food should be hot, spiced, scalding.
Before preparing a culinary masterpiece, the wife undresses and places raw meat on her chest, then says:
Prepare food so that it is all eaten at the table. You cannot leave half-eaten charmed meat in the house. It will have to be thrown away.
Spell on underwear
This conspiracy is the fastest way to bring your husband closer to bed and “force” him to fulfill his marital duties. In the morning, go to the store and buy new men's briefs of the right size.
In the evening, when your husband falls asleep, you need to go to the closet, take out your morning purchase and go to the open bedroom window. Take your underwear in one hand and a church candle in the other. Read the magic text three times:
After this, you need to cross yourself and put out the candle. In the morning, the husband must put on these underpants. The conspiracy is carried out only on Women's Day on the waxing moon.
An effective ritual to make a husband want his wife
To make a husband want his wife, there is a very effective ritual
What should a woman do if she really wanted to meet a passionate man and married “Santa Claus”. To melt his ice, you will have to resort to family magic and read a strong plot to make the husband want his wife.
Before going to bed, place a scarlet silk ribbon under the sheets. The next day, early in the morning, carefully remove it. Pass the very tip of the ribbon over your husband's lips without waking him.
Go to another room and weave the ribbon into your hair. Read the plot:
After this, the tape is removed. It is necessary to put the red talisman in a secluded place so that no one will find it.
Spell for wine to return husband's passion
What to do if your husband doesn’t want to go home. He is already bored with his wife, with whom he spent many years. He loves her, but calmly, without passion. Therefore, he prefers to sit with friends in the yard, playing chess or dominoes, or digging around in the garage. In this case, to make the husband want his wife again, they read a strong spell about wine.
Prepare a good dinner. Cover the table with a white tablecloth and place two lit red candles in the center. While your husband is away, speak wine:
Put all your passion and love into the plot. Drink wine with your husband at dinner.
How to restore an emotional connection with your spouse to improve your sex life
If you want your relationship to be filled with the same passion and emotions again, you must take care of your beloved woman not only on the day when you want to achieve intimacy from her, but also at any other time. Remember the time when your relationship was just beginning. Surely you gave your significant other small but very pleasant gifts. Start doing nice things for her again. She needs to understand that you value her and need her.
Women love to be listened to and heard attentively. Talk to your spouse more, ask how her day was, and offer your help. In addition, you can add a touch of flirtation to your conversations.
If you have children, chances are your significant other gets very tired being around them. Hire a nanny who can spend time with your kids while you and your wife spend time together at least a couple of times a week.
how to fall in love with your wife again
He was awakened by someone's persistent push in his side. “Leave me alone, I’m sleeping,” the stork muttered, trying to move away from the hand. But she persistently slipped something warm and soft under her nose, smelling somehow familiar. The stork tried to dodge this smell. - Be careful! — the voice boomed, “you’ll crush it before takeoff.” - A! What? What kind of takeoff? — the stork flapped its wings in shock. “Look,” the voice continued softly, carefully pushing the bird’s beak towards the package. The stork looked in and flapped his wings even more, for which he immediately received a slap on the head. - Stop it! Calm down! You need to be careful! Otherwise, they won’t succeed again! - the voice growled. “And the guys are already suffering so much.” And they are waiting for you, and you are sleeping! — the foot kicked the nest. - Hey! Who called me to be careful?! — the stork carefully picked up the bundle, taking it in its beak with the usual movement. - Where should we fly? Having remembered the address, the stork rose higher and flew along the intended course. - Be careful! This is your millionth flight, and she has her first child! - the stork heard a voice. The stork was already accustomed to such features of his boss; he was all-seeing, all-hearing, and moving his voice over a distance was not a problem for him. “But they trust me to carry children the old fashioned way!” — the stork thought smugly, looking tenderly at the bundle. Nothing was visible there yet; the load would become heavier as the flight progressed. It is important to carry it to its destination without falling into an air pocket along the way, not to let the baby get cold in the wind, so as not to inadvertently catch a cold and, of course, not to drop it... This has happened. More than once, unfortunately. Then the stork returned back to its nest and tossed and turned there for a long time, because it was impossible to fall asleep. And soon they brought him a new package again and it had to be delivered... Why was he doing such work? After all, it wasn't always like this. He remembered himself as a stork, his parents, sister and brother, how he grew up, and his mother and father fed him and told him how to live in this world. He remembers his first inept flight, when he did not yet know how to understand air currents and fapped his wings too much. And then he simply fell in love with this feeling of floating and just shrugged it off when his parents explained to him how to build a nest, where it was better to get food. The father just sighed and said that this carelessness would not lead to good. One day a stork tried to climb up the mountain to see what was there. He was always curious. And he rose as high as he could, and apparently he didn’t have enough air. At least, that’s what the stork thought as soon as he woke up in someone’s warm hands. These were not the wings of his father or mother, nor were they human hands (once he fell out of the nest, and a little girl stroked him for a long time, then they explained to him that it was good that his parents took him back, although the stork himself was perplexed how it could have been different). And then the voice of his savior or his second father was heard, a voice that he still hears: “Well, where have you flown, silly!” And the palm gently stroked his unruly white feathers on his head. The stork liked it on the clouds. He quickly grew up, got comfortable, and became interested in what other storks were doing. They flew away, carefully carrying some packages in their beaks, and returned without them. The stork always wondered what was there. He kept trying to peek, but didn’t have time, until one day his second father asked: “Do you want to know what’s there?” In response to the joyful flapping of his wings, the father waved his palm, and in the dissipated haze the stork saw a house, a long-legged messenger with a bundle in its beak was smoothly descending in large circles towards it, the bundle was moving, but it was impossible to see what was there. A stork flew up and knocked on the window with its beak: a man and a woman ran up to it. She clasped her hands, hurried to open the window, and reached for the package. She joyfully pressed it to her chest, then carefully placed it on the table and unfolded it. - Oh, how cute! - she smiled at her husband. - Our son! — he hugged his wife. “He looks like you, but he has grandma’s eyes,” the woman fussed, leaning towards the child. “No, he looks like you, but that’s my nose,” the man said thoughtfully. - What? Do storks carry human children? — the young stork flapped his wings. - And why didn’t they say thank you to the one who brought them the baby? They completely forgot about him!!! “Well,” the father said peacefully. “They have no time for that now.” After all, they were waiting for the baby, and here is such happiness! - But how! — the young stork continued to be indignant. - That’s not possible! - Calm down, darling, that’s how it’s supposed to be. Storks bring happiness to the house, let people rejoice, later they will again remember the one who brought them the boy and will certainly praise him. The young stork looked at the teacher, puzzled. — Do you want to bring joy to people’s homes? - continued the father. And the young stork agreed without hesitation. True, they did not immediately entrust him with carrying the baby. First there was a course for a young fighter - the stork initially carried a bundle with a loaf of bread, learned not to unclench his beak for a long time, which did not always work out. Then he somehow flew with an older comrade to the same family. Looking into the eyes of his happy parents, the young stork was convinced that he had chosen the right business. And therefore, with pleasure, he began to carry out the orders of his boss, as he joyfully renamed his savior. The stork remembered his first flight with real cargo well. Of course, everything turned out not as he imagined, and not as he saw it in others. Firstly, the stork tried very, very hard to deliver the baby safe and sound. He succeeded, and when he knocked on the window with a sinking heart, no one came to his call. The stork knocked louder and looked into the room, stretching his neck as far as he could. Finally, a woman approached. The stork became dignified, smiled with his eyes, waited until she opened the bolt and held out the package. The woman took it without looking and with a grumble put the package on the table. The stork could only make out a few words: he brought it again... The rest is unintelligible. The stork looked around puzzled, expecting a burst of delight. But he didn’t wait. Two children appeared from the depths of the room: a boy and a girl. The boy ran to the window, slammed it right in front of the stork's beak, and stuck out his tongue at him. The stork was so offended and hurt... He asked his father why his gift was not welcome. The Savior explained that people do not always understand and accept this happiness. They will understand it later, so there is no need to be upset. It was still a little disappointing. But not like the day the stork lost its baby for the first time. Everything was as usual. The flight was successful, the weather was good... He didn’t even understand what had happened, he just suddenly realized that he was falling. Trying to somehow level the flight, he loosened his grip for a moment, and then realized that the package was already empty. The stork circled over this place for a long time and screamed, screamed... It hurt, not because the boss would scold, no, he’s not like that, he’s kind, he can be strict sometimes, but because it’s necessary for the job. It was heartbreaking that someone there on earth was now crying without waiting for the baby. It hurts that a young life was cut short before it even began. It was unbearable. He returned home, wanted to cuddle up to his father, to lose himself in his warm arms, like when he was still small and stupid. But there was no savior. He was now helping someone else, he couldn’t tear himself apart, because so many people needed help, and he was alone! Then the stork noticed another silhouette not far away. He flew up and sat down next to me. She squinted at him and covered him with her wing. It became a little easier. And when the father came, the stork rushed to him shouting: “Why is this?” His father patted him on the head and explained that this happens, unfortunately. But next time, of course, this won’t happen. The stork wanted to immediately fly again to bring joy to someone else, but the hand of the savior held him back. - Not now. You're too upset. Look, your friend is waiting for you. Get some rest. Get stronger. And everything will work out. The stork looked at the savior, and then into the tender eyes of his beloved. Because only now did I understand what love is... They had little chicks, and the stork jealously guarded their peace. Perhaps now he began to understand the essence of his mission. And then one morning my father came and said it was time to fly. - How? - asked the stork. - I can not now! I have children! - And some people don’t have them. - the father said abruptly and left, leaving the bundle. The stork looked into the beautiful eyes of his beloved, she understood everything and let him go. And he carried the bundle carefully and carefully, and met the joyful parents to whom he handed the baby. It was so long ago. His children have already grown up and each has chosen their own path. The beloved also began to bring happiness to people in the house, so they rarely saw each other. After the flight, the stork was very tired and slept in its nest until the next time. Meetings with people were different: both joyful and bitter, sometimes they threw stones at him, both when he brought the baby, and during the flight, trying to throw him off course. The stork slowly got used to this and became stronger in spirit. He liked to watch how the baby in the bundle grew, began to toss and turn and kick its legs; here he had to be twice as careful not to drop the bundle. Even though the load became heavier, the stork even rejoiced at it. Over the years, he became wiser, taught young storks to carry babies and thought about retiring. This was already the millionth flight. For him, but for those who are expecting him, this will be the first baby. Therefore, it was necessary to fly. “I’ll make it,” whispered the stork, “I’ll definitely make it.”
Don't have time or are you distracted by your phone? How to fall in love with reading again
For a long time, literature has been losing popularity due to the development of digital entertainment such as streaming services and video games. However, in 2019, you can see how reading has become popular again - social networks are full of bloggers, channels and podcasts about books. At the same time, reading has become much more difficult due to the high pace of life, absent-mindedness and a million distracting little things like notifications on the phone. We explain how to fall in love with spending time alone with a book again.
Let's start from afar - why have books become popular again? Perhaps for the same reason that we are seeing an increase in interest in board games and “handmade” hobbies like embroidery. Our brains are so oversaturated with digital information that we return to offline entertainment (which we still love to talk about on social networks).
An overdose of information has weakened our attention. Before the advent of the Internet, people read much more actively because our brains were not overloaded with constant stimulation. After the development of the World Wide Web, various gadgets, services, applications and social networks became a part of life and greatly increased the load on our consciousness. Because of this, reading books has become much more difficult - we can no longer sit with our favorite volume with the same calm as before, and this activity itself seems not as exciting compared to the series on Netflix. How can you fall in love with reading again?
Subscribe to book channels on social networks
If you haven't read for a long time or have never been interested in literature at all, then it may be difficult for you to approach this matter. It's also not easy to transition from a digital life to such an old-fashioned activity. As a first step, you can follow various book bloggers and get valuable recommendations from them along with a boost of motivation.
There are a lot of such blogs, so find the one that suits you best and stay tuned. For example, on telegram you can subscribe to the channels greenlampbooks , “Stoner” , “Literature and Life” , on Instagram - alexskrebcova , on VK - There is no print screen in my reader , and on YouTube - Books around me or “Book Person” . You can also subscribe to literary podcasts like “Book Bazaar” with Galina Yuzefovich, “Coven of Fools” or “Regiment” .
Read what you want and what inspires you
If you haven't read in a while, you might be tempted to set your sights high and create a huge reading list with Ulysses at the top. For many of us, this is an impossible task, so it is better to set yourself more modest goals at first and ask yourself a few questions.
- Are there any specific topics you'd like to read about?
- Is there an author you've read easily before who has other books?
- Do you have a favorite author whose books you can re-read?
- Are there any writers who are similar to your favorite authors?
The answers to these questions will help you navigate the world of literature. It's also important to forget about the school approach to reading as an unpleasant chore - as obvious as it may be, it is much easier to finish a book if the topic really excites you. Therefore, it is better for you to read about issues that interest you, be it personal difficulties or global issues. Read fiction with pleasure, and not for the sake of showing off or doing a heavy duty.
With science pop it's even easier. The next time you see a gap in your life, a book can probably help. Whitespace refers to those situations that cause you to say, “I have to get rid of X,” where X could be anything. Whenever you encounter a problem that you think you will never overcome, look for a book on the topic. Are you afraid to speak in public? There are books for this. Want to know how the human brain works? There are also books on this topic. Do you want to cope with depression? There are books for this too.
Get a library membership card
Libraries are disappearing due to the fact that almost every book can be downloaded on the Internet. But if you take a book with the obligation to return it after a certain period of time, then this will be an additional motivation for reading. In addition, at the library you can get recommendations from employees, borrow paper books for free, or join a book club. The latter is especially useful, since the leaders of such clubs usually set deadlines for reading the material, and discussion of the works will push you to read more thoughtfully.
Make a reading list
Just don’t make it huge; just a few points are enough for the near future. Having a realistic reading list can be a great motivator. You can easily compose it in one of the many applications that will suggest other works to you, like the LiveLib . You can also add friends there and compete with them in the books you read.
Try audiobooks
If you really can't concentrate on reading or can't find the time to do so, then you should try audiobooks. Of course, snobs criticize this type of literature consumption, but for many people this is the best option. You still get exactly the same information, but you can combine it with other activities like walking the dog or exercising. The best Russian service with audiobooks is Storytel .
Can't tear yourself away from your phone? Load books into it!
Between work, friends, and everything else, it's hard to find time to read regularly. However, chances are that you have time, but you spend it on your smartphone. Whenever you find yourself surfing social media excessively, switch to a reading app like MyBook or Wattpad .
Buy an e-book
E-readers like the Amazon Kindle can make reading much easier. Such gadgets will not only help you save on purchasing licensed books, but will also instantly deliver them to your device. In addition, you can read any book you like, regardless of its size, and read it, for example, on the subway. Such a purchase will motivate you to read, otherwise you will look at the e-book with longing and regret that you bought it.
Find free time
All the previous tips are meaningless if you still can’t find time to sit down with a book. To do this, try devoting short periods of time to reading every day - it’s much easier than mentally preparing for a multi-hour literary marathon. The process is much easier with small time windows like 15 minutes a day, because you won't have an excuse not to read.
Even the busiest people in the world like Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg find time to read. If you can’t find at least a quarter of an hour to sit quietly with a book, even on the way to work, then you have big problems with time management. Try reading a book about it!
What can kill a woman's love
Men are in vain to believe that when a woman receives the status of a wife, there is no need to try for her sake. It is not at all surprising that after such behavior the attitude of the other half changes, she grows cold towards her spouse, and the feeling of love disappears. If a husband wants to make his ex or current wife fall in love with him and see her happy next to him, he should figure out what exactly went wrong.
Everyday life and gray everyday life
The most common phenomenon in families is that the woman performs all housework. Routine affairs lead to a lack of pleasant moments. Communication between spouses comes down to discussing everyday topics, and romance takes the place of cooking, cleaning, and laundry. The situation can be aggravated if there are children in the family, whom the wife also takes care of. When a woman, in addition to household chores, also works, without receiving help from a man, and experiences a lack of attention, her feelings towards her husband noticeably cool down.
Jealousy for no reason
A man endlessly suspects his wife of cheating, shows distrust of her and constantly devalues her words. Women's self-esteem falls and disappointment sets in. The wife stops seeing her husband, who causes her so many negative emotions, as a close and beloved person.
End of the period of falling in love
At the beginning of a relationship, people flutter on the wings of love and are in a state of euphoria. A woman does not see any flaws in a man, she admires and passionately desires him. But the hormonal levels gradually return to normal, and instead of falling in love, a more serious feeling should appear - love. If during this time a successful relationship has not been formed, then the spouse may feel cold.
Husband's passivity
In this case, we are talking about a discrepancy between the temperaments or desires of the spouses. If a woman is used to leading an active lifestyle, traveling, visiting interesting places, communicating with friends, but in marriage everything is limited to home, work and children, then a terrible monotony arises. A gap is created between the spouses.
Material problems
Financial difficulties are one of the most common reasons for breakups, as couples cannot stand the test. Women need confidence in the future and a sense of stability. If a man cannot provide for his family and does not want to work, his wife perceives this as indifference on his part.
Difficult relationships
When there is no mutual understanding in the family, the partners cannot agree on simple things, the woman begins to be annoyed by any trait in her husband’s character.
All this leads to constant conflicts and showdowns. The chosen one begins to feel that she has nothing in common with her partner, so she loses interest in him.
Doesn't feel like a woman
It is difficult to admire a woman who is always there, has become familiar and has ceased to evoke emotions. When a man does not devote time, does not give gifts, ignores and brushes aside his wife in every possible way, then alienation comes to her along with disappointment.
